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The Data-driven Way To Win Customers' Hearts — Neil Hoyne | Examples of Using AI to Engage Customers, How to Build a Business Around Long-term Customer Relationships, How to Use Data to Understand Customer Needs

February 28, 2024 Neil Hoyne Season 6 Episode 22
The Data-driven Way To Win Customers' Hearts — Neil Hoyne | Examples of Using AI to Engage Customers, How to Build a Business Around Long-term Customer Relationships, How to Use Data to Understand Customer Needs
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The Data-driven Way To Win Customers' Hearts — Neil Hoyne | Examples of Using AI to Engage Customers, How to Build a Business Around Long-term Customer Relationships, How to Use Data to Understand Customer Needs
Feb 28, 2024 Season 6 Episode 22
Neil Hoyne

From the archive: In this episode, we discuss the data-driven way to win customers' hearts. Our featured guest on the show is Neil Hoyne, best-selling author of the book "Converted" and Chief Strategist at Google.


Topics discussed in this episode:

  • How to view data as a language guiding customer interactions
  • The importance of personalization in customer engagement
  • Why trust in data usage is needed for strong consumer-business relationships
  • How to prioritize customer-centric strategies over tech trends like AI

Links & Resources

Website: https://neilhoyne.com/
Book: https://www.amazon.com/Converted-Data-Driven-Way-Customers-Hearts/dp/0593420659
LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/neilhoyne
Twitter: https://twitter.com/neilhoyne



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Show Notes Transcript

From the archive: In this episode, we discuss the data-driven way to win customers' hearts. Our featured guest on the show is Neil Hoyne, best-selling author of the book "Converted" and Chief Strategist at Google.


Topics discussed in this episode:

  • How to view data as a language guiding customer interactions
  • The importance of personalization in customer engagement
  • Why trust in data usage is needed for strong consumer-business relationships
  • How to prioritize customer-centric strategies over tech trends like AI

Links & Resources

Website: https://neilhoyne.com/
Book: https://www.amazon.com/Converted-Data-Driven-Way-Customers-Hearts/dp/0593420659
LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/neilhoyne
Twitter: https://twitter.com/neilhoyne



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https://t.ly/R36m-


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Claus Lauter: [00:00:00] Welcome to the eCommerce Coffee Break podcast. Today we revisit the episode with Google's chief strategist and bestselling author Neil Hoyne where we discuss the data driven way to win customers hearts. So let's dive right into it. 

This is the eCommerce Coffee Break. A top rated Shopify growth podcast dedicated to Shopify merchants and business owners looking to grow their online stores.

Learn how to survive in the fast changing eCommerce world. With your host Claus Lauter and get marketing advice you can't find on Google. Welcome 

to the show. Welcome to another episode of the eCommerce Coffee Break podcast. Let me ask you a question. What if you can build a business around long term relationship with customers using data to understand who they are, what they need, and where to find more of them?

That would be great. Wouldn't it be? So that's what we're talking about today. We want to find out a data driven way to win customers hearts and find out [00:01:00] on how to do this. With me on the show today, I have Neil Horton. He is the chief strategist at Google and the best selling author of Converted, the data driven way to win customers hearts.

Neil serves as a senior fellow at artificial intelligence at Wharton School and is on the board of trustees at Purdue University Global. He has received multiple patents for his work in marketing attribution and customer analytics being published in notable outlets, such as Harvard Business Review, and has keynoted hundreds of events in more than a dozen countries.

When it comes to the world of data marketing strategy, then Neil is the right person to talk to. So let's welcome him to the show. Hey Neil, how are you today? I'm doing great. Thank you again for having me. Neil, data driven way to win customers hearts, big title, but obviously we can break it down and find out ways on how you can do this.

Maybe to start with, give me an idea, how would you define data? 

Neil Hoyne: I look at data almost as a language. It's a language that helps tell the story of the [00:02:00] interactions we have with our customers, with other people, that we can't directly observe. So if you and I are having a conversation, we can talk about our likes, our dislikes, how we came to find specific products or companies, our previous experiences with individual brands.

When we're looking at the size and scale of the internet, it's impossible to have those conversations one on one. I mean, I guess you could do, it would just take a lot of time. And if you look at your website and you see hundreds of people coming through every hour, then the question is, well, how do you have those conversations?

And really what you see is data is What's left behind or I think actually when you look at the entomology of the term data all the way to its Latin origins, it stands for something that is given something given by our consumers to kind of share those those stories with you to say this is who I am.

This is what I'm doing. This is what I'm interested in, and this is how we interact together. And companies just sit there and they collect these stories and this data and then they try to make sense of [00:03:00] it to say, well, all right, I have all this information. People have left all these interesting tidbits of knowledge with me.

How do I do something with this that not only furthers the relationship I have with that person, but also create some value between us? And that leads to this whole area of data science, which is trying to put rigor and methodology around that practice. 

Claus Lauter: Now, I'm one of these people who I'm happy to leave my data to a merchant in the internet when this data will make my life easier.

I don't know. My browsing experience will be better. My shopping experience will be better, but a lot of brands out there just grab whatever they data have and then they bombard you with things that are not completely related to what you're interested in. Now you're at Google and you're dealing with a ton of data and Google premise is to make the experience, the internet experience with Google better.

What's your approach there? How do you think should brands act when it comes to the data usage of their [00:04:00] visitors? 

Neil Hoyne: You know, I think there's a few things to unpack. First is let's talk about this value of data. A lot of companies look at data as being exactly that, a valuable asset that they need to collect, which means the absence of collecting that data.

Has some of them frightened to say, if I don't grab this data right now from this customer, I will be destroying value for my organization. And so they just go in and vacuum up everything they can, but there's no inherent value simply in capturing it. You need to know how to interpret and how to use that data.

And that's where a lot of companies struggle is they build these huge data warehouses because in their mind, the value of collecting this data should be obvious. But then when they apply it, they're like, well, wait a minute. What happened? Where is this, this value I'm supposed to be capturing? And sometimes when they then try to capture some of that value, it's really not in a thoughtful way, which does the opposite.

It destroys customer relationships. One of the interesting brands I used to work with actually pointed out to say they had a lot of data on customers, [00:05:00] but they actually thought that the value of data was knowing what not to use. Knowing that if they called the customer the wrong thing, the wrong name, if they give them the wrong preferences.

Then they actually destroy that customer relationship. And so they said, if everyone's trying to throw too much data at the customers, our advantage will be in using less at the end of the day, though, it goes to what you said, which is from the consumer side, if they share all these secrets with you, if they allow you to observe their behaviors, are you, to your point, making that experience better for them?

Do they see something better? So if they share all their shopping habits with you, do they see better recommendations? Do they see better products being developed? Or are you really taking that information and saying, I can charge this customer more because I know they're willing to pay. We always get anxious about that.

I know on travel websites and how some of these travel companies do it is a little bit dubious, but people say, if I click too much on those airline flights and I see [00:06:00] those prices change, the airline must know I'm interested and they're trying to charge me more. And then we feel we're like, well, I need to open up a new private window.

So that way they don't have that data. And that relationship starts over again to see, do they treat me differently? And really the reason why I'm saying all this is that while we look at data as just being this, this capturing of information, there also needs to be trust with the consumer about what you're doing with that information.

You know, we ended, we find ourselves in a really interesting part of, of data collection right now, where. Privacy rights, especially among, amongst consumers, are very important. And what do we see? We see exactly to the point that you said. When there's a lot of research that goes out, consumers are willing to share data with companies.

They're in fact willing to share more data than they have in the past, but they are asking for some very specific things. One is, they want to know what the company is doing with that data. Are you sharing it? Are you selling it? Are you going to raise prices? They want to know what's in it for them. So I'm telling you all about [00:07:00] my shopping habits.

Are you going to make life better for me or are you going to make your products more expensive? And they also want to know that if things don't work out between them and the company, that they have the right to pack up their data and walk away without penalty. Just saying, Hey, things didn't go the way I expected.

Can I have my things, my data, my story, and can I leave? And so really, when we take apart, a lot of people look at this within laws and regulations and that's a fine framework for some, but really where companies are served best is to say, you have a customer across from you that's saying, these are the very reasonable things I want.

I will tell you how I buy and what I need. But I just want to know what's in it for me. And can I walk away? And if you're able to manage this relationship, it's less about the technical nuances of the law. And it's really just saying, can you run a good business that consumers trust and they feel valued.

And if you have that, they will share more data with you than any other competitors, and you will have more opportunities to service their needs than other companies in the marketplace. 

Claus Lauter: A lot of good things in there. Obviously with the [00:08:00] flight prices, I'm made to be smile. I'm a continuous traveler. I'm the oldest digital nomad that you will ever encounter.

And that's a novel hassle for me. It's like, I don't trust these airlines, but it's a very good example. Now, when it comes to, and I think some of your lines is that they. Rather use less data to be more personalized than use all the data that you have is a very important point now if you want to convert a customer how much data do you actually need to find or to convert them into a super fan when the kind of data points make the difference.

Neil Hoyne: I look at it in two philosophies one is a lot less than you think. This is not about saying the perfect thing at the perfect time to customers. It's just about being slightly better than the competition. I joke around oftentimes. I love my wife, she loves me, but I joke with her and I say, sometimes I'm not sure I'm the best person for you.

I'm just the best person you've [00:09:00] found so far. No, she'll deny it. No, no, no, no, no. Okay. But it's the same thing with a lot of consumers, is that we often think we need to have the right message personalized at the right time, delivered in the right way. We need to have all the data. No, we don't. We need to have a better message than other companies that we're competing with, so that that consumer believes that you understand their needs.

better than other companies. That's where it starts. And so what happens oftentimes is we look internally and say we have all this data. I often encourage companies to look the opposite way. What are your competitors doing to engage and to meet the needs of their customers? Where do they fall short? And how do you offset it?

A practical exercise that we have here in the state of California is individual consumers under a privacy act called CCPA can request from a business a listing of all the personally identifiable information that that business has on that consumer. Now we often think about this as a consumer lens. Do I want to know what a large retailer or airline has on me?

I [00:10:00] know a lot of companies that I actually work with them to say, as consumers request that information from your competitors. What are your competitors capturing on customers, and how does that compare against what you know about those customers? How are your competitors then using that data, versus if you had that same information, how would you apply it?

And then the next step in the process is not taking all that data and trying to build the perfect relationship, but saying, how can you use some of that data to meet customers in a fundamentally new way? Now, we think recommendation engines because those are the most prevalent, but even customizing and something I talk about in the book is customizing the email subject line.

If you know the first name of a customer, putting that in the subject line of your email actually increases conversion rates, increases engagement with that email, decreases unsubscribes. Yet, I could open up my inbox right now and look at all the commercial messages I've received in the past month, and maybe one or two percent of them actually use that technique, despite most of the businesses knowing who I [00:11:00] am.

And so a lot of it is a thoughtful approach to say, you don't have to boil the ocean and do something with AI or ML. You just need to think carefully to say, our customers provided us with this data. How do we use this data, even just one piece of data, in a better way to service them? And if you're not using that data, then this is this backstop you need is to say, maybe you shouldn't be collecting it.

If you're asking customers information, how do you spend is this is if I go over into the other room and I were to go to my wife and say, I need a copy of your credit card statement now she would give it to me. But the next question out of her mouth would be why what do you need it for? I'm curious about your purchases and how much you spend on shoes or I'm looking to optimize our tax deductions and seeing if there's anything I can write off different amounts of value for the same data.

How you communicate that with customers is part of this. And so I, it goes back to very basic things, which is outta the information you're collecting. I want you to think, how are you using it? How are you improving that customer relationship? And if you [00:12:00] don't need it, then why are you collecting it in the first place?

Claus Lauter: Hey, Klossy, just a quick one. If you like the content of this episode, subscribe to the weekly newsletter at Newsletter dot. ecommercecoffeebreak. com. I score and curate 50 news sources so you don't have to saving your hours of research. Grow your revenue with e commerce news, marketing strategies, tools, podcast interviews, and more all in a quick three minute read.

So head over to newsletter. ecommercecoffeebreak. com to subscribe. As I said, a hundred percent free. Also, you will find the link in the show notes and now back to the show. Very good point there. I used to work in hotel business and whenever we were able to address and we actually were trained for that, a regular guest by their name, we would know that the tip in our hand would be higher than usually.

So, and I think that applies still nowadays in the interwebs. And as I said, it's surprising that so many merchants do not use the name in the email communication. That's basically a very simple 

Neil Hoyne: thing to do. I'm surprised by it as well. And you bring it up. Hospitality is one of the best industries because it's built around [00:13:00] servicing the customer.

Retailers, as much as they talk about it, it's either relegated to a customer service function or it's all about shipping more product. How do we optimize the number of products we go after? You know, I'll tell you a fascinating story. I was talking to, um, to some of the people at one hotel and I asked them, I said, how do you, how do you engage your customers?

How do you filter out information when you're talking about one to one interactions? And something they said still sticks out in my head today was that they said they're very careful about the questions they ask their customers. They want them to do, be organic, but for them, the people standing behind the desk, that's data collection for them.

And just, they have that moment. And what they said is oftentimes when you leave a hotel, what will they ask you? They'll say, well, how was everything? And you as a guest have to then think, okay, do I want to start complaining? Do I really want, and you give them the answer that everyone gives, which is everything was fine.

Now, unpack that, that is a wasted interaction. I ask you a question and you provide nothing of value to [00:14:00] me. And so they actually ask people, they say on the way out there, say, was there anything we could have done better for your stay? That's inviting criticism. It's inviting information. And if you criticize that property, if there was some way that you were let down, that becomes part of your CRM file that for every other stay, not only at that hotel, but other properties they own, they will make sure that never happens again.

A manager will be alerted before you come in to say. Don't do this if we haven't systematically removed it from our company. And I love that just because it highlights this end to end process, which hospitality is remarkable for, which is, let's ask a question, let's collect data with intention. Let's understand how we optimize that question to get the information that is most valuable.

And then let's make sure we take that information to improve ourselves, our processes, and that our customer experiences the value of sharing that information back with us. 

Claus Lauter: On that, I want to touch on AI because that probably can help with that. Obviously, as a merchant, you're not able to ask every customer that's coming in, you [00:15:00] to your online shop, these questions, but AI might be one way to do so.

Do you have already some experience, real life experience on AI is facilitated on asking the right questions? Yeah. 

Neil Hoyne: I've seen it, and I often tell people that AI is a very promising and exciting area, but we have to be very careful, uh, as practitioners to make sure that AI is not leading the strategy. And here's kind of the way that I would, I would break it apart.

If you're in a business where your bottleneck is to say, I wish I had a way to more thoughtfully engage our customers. Instead of email, I wish I could get them more immediate responses. I wish we could give dynamic messages. We don't have enough people that we can pay in the call center. We need to service these people at volume.

Those are problems that AI can solve. If, however, your organization is on the other side to say, AI is really popular. Where do we put it in our business model? Then I become a little bit more concerned because AI and technology is driving [00:16:00] your business strategy. As opposed to supporting it. And so I always take that step back to say what are the business challenges you're trying to solve and are you trying to solve something that's meaningful or are you just trying to say we need AI because AI is popular.

And it's not to say again that that AI and large these large language models won't be productive, but really to take a step back to say yesterday, Coca Cola released an NFT now NFTs, at least according to Google search trends data is at almost one of the lowest points of interest since they first burst onto the market.

Coca Cola is lagging a little bit. Disney disbanded their metaverse division. There's still companies that are saying, well, we're going to start taking cryptocurrencies. There is a challenge around following these trends so aggressively out of the fear of missing out. And so really I say, understand the technologies, but don't lose focus of your business questions.

And if your business questions are saying we can't properly serve our customers and this is a better way to do it parallel, I draw with [00:17:00] this. Just something we're all very familiar with our phone menus. So I called up FedEx the other day because I had a question about a package that was misdelivered.

It was delivered to my house instead of the neighbor. It should have gone 80 pound package. I couldn't have carried it. I could not get through FedEx's phone menu to reach somebody. Their phone menu was built. Oh, do I need to ship a package? Do I have a billing question? No, none of these, none of these would let me, do I have a tracking number?

I do, but I'm not the shipper or receiver. So it doesn't let me go any further. And then I call DHL and somebody actually picks up, this is for a different issue, they pick up right away over the phone, no phone menu. And what a remarkable experience this was for me to talk to a person. And so I always worry about that to say when technology displaces people, you may become more efficient on one metric, but are you destroying relationships on the other?

Could you actually measure that? And so I guess it's just a caution to everybody in terms of the path about how we integrate technologies such as AI, just to say a lot of promise, a lot of potential. [00:18:00] Just don't let it drive your strategy. Let it support it. 

Claus Lauter: Now in your book, obviously you're touching on all of these topics.

Give me a little bit of an insight. What's the story behind the book? How did that come together? 

Neil Hoyne: The easiest way to look at the book was that it was a series of missteps that companies made. I spent more than a decade of my life talking to companies, talking to boards, talking to private equity firms about the decisions that they make, how they want to sell more products, how they want to become more profitable, and you start to see good companies versus, I don't want to say bad companies, but let's say underperforming companies.

Companies that had a lot of potential that was never realized. And what really happened with this is that somebody asked me, they said, could you just tell me some of the stories of the companies? I want to learn not from case studies that said, here's a company that did everything right. Could you give me a case study of companies that did something wrong?

I want to learn from a group of really smart people who thought that they were looking at the data, that they were making all the right moves, and then went bankrupt. [00:19:00] I want to learn how those mistakes happen because those are the things that are not spoken about publicly. Those are the things that are most valuable.

And so I wrote one of these stories, and then another, and another, and it became 20, 30, 40 of these stories. And they all went on a theme of companies that started embracing technology, embracing strategies for strategy's sake, trying to push products. And all of these companies. lost sight in one way or another of their customers.

Customers are most valuable assets. They were losing touch of these people because they were so focused internally on their own metrics and their own KPIs. And so really what this book does is it breaks down all these stories and you don't have to read every story. They all certainly come together in a theme, but really each story carries a lesson to say, these are things you should look out for.

These are things you should be mindful of your business. And the kind of the greatest testament I had to this was that I wrote these and all these stories are anonymized. So you're not going to read it. And even though I know the companies, I'm not going to call out who these people are executives were, but I was surprised at [00:20:00] the number of people that have called me.

After reading the book and I had one gentleman in particular that came up and he's like, Neil, it's like I'm reading into the book, uh, chapter 14, chapter 15, we're talking about this happening with metrics. It's like, was this my company? And I was like, I'm sorry, I can't tell you. And he starts mumbling under his breath.

It's like, damn it. And then he starts this, this stream of profanity. He's like, I told the board they were doing this and this and this. And, and he's like, he's like, ah, we could have been better. Meanwhile, I'm sitting here thinking, I'm like, this story was not about your company. The story was about someone else, but I'm glad you can relate to it and see those challenges.

And so it's really, the book came from a collection of mistakes around companies that lost their connection through technology, through data, with the customers they were trying to serve and practical lessons we can gain from it. It's not doing it from a perspective of judging any company. It's just a perspective of, I want you to be better by learning [00:21:00] about the mistakes that are common so that when you see them in your own organizations, you realize where some of the best intentions and best data can lead you astray.

Claus Lauter: I love that approach. Um, I've been in business for more than 20 years and not all the businesses that I started worked out and I learned from the ones that failed. I think the most, I think that's sort of what you have in your book now. When it comes to online commerce, e commerce, is there a certain trend that you see right now, or any final thought before we come to the end of the coffee break that you would give our 

Neil Hoyne: listeners?

I would say this with online commerce, a lot of companies I'm working with right now are struggling to find their footing. In the past, it was, we're going to do exactly what we did last year, but a little bit better, a little bit faster, a little bit less expensive COVID change. A lot of assumptions as to who these customers are and how they're behaving.

Now, for some companies, that's a cause for concern. They're not sure what direction they're going. So they're going to be more conservative than ever. But for other companies, this is actually an opportunity to say, let's try something [00:22:00] new. Let's look at our customers in a different way. And maybe this is a time where we actually want to make this change to our business.

And so really the underlying theme here is that a lot of companies are moving from this product and volume centric world to let's build lasting relationships with the customers that not only stuck out, stuck with us through the pandemic, but are going to contribute the most value for us going forward.

Let's understand who we are and let's finally make that change. And so disruptive circumstances do a lot. They keep us up at night. They make us unsettled in terms of our estimations and our strategies, but you can also see this as a moment to say, well, now it's time to change to what we can do better.

And all these things we're talking about, the data. The AI, these ideas of who customers and their relationships are, are finally coming together where it's possible for businesses, even the smallest businesses to have a leg up on these larger companies that aren't so adaptive to the changes that we see in front of us.

Claus Lauter: It's a perfect ending to today's episode. I 100 percent agree with what you just said. And I think sometimes [00:23:00] versions Entrepreneurs need to take a step back and look at what they actually do and what they want to achieve and focus more on the customer than on the technology. Neil, thanks so much for your time today.

Where can people find out more about you and your book? 

Neil Hoyne: My book, Converted, uh, is available on Amazon in booksellers everywhere. It also is available as an ebook. Audible if you want to listen to me speak for four and a half hours. I don't know if anybody wants to do that. LinkedIn is also the best way. If you have any questions on the book, you can search my name, Neil Hoyne, find me.

It's where I tend to answer a lot of messages and questions from the customer centric, curious business people and entrepreneurs in the world. 

Claus Lauter: Cool. I will put the links in the show notes and you just one click away. Thanks so much for your time today and talk soon. My pleasure. Hey Klaus here. Thanks for joining me on another episode of the e commerce coffee break podcast.

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